Having been a teacher for ten years before having a family of my own, you would think I would have learned something.
I should have known that there is “never a good time” to discipline my children. I was a teacher after all and it was “never the best time” to properly correct a student.
I should have known that I would look at my children with a completely bewildered what-were-you-thinking look. I am a teacher after all and have taught this student, and that one, and him, and her, and…
I should have known that my biggest problem as a husband and father would be me. I was a teacher after all and was all too selfish and sarcastic.
I should have known that God would do a whole lot of work in my family despite my mistakes. I was a teacher after all and saw too many situations when kids learned in spite of me.
I should have known that I would learn more by being a husband and dad than I would teach my family. I am a teacher after all and learn many of my best lessons from my students.
I should have known that jokes at the expense of others too often doesn’t feel like a joke to them. I was a teacher after all whose humor was often not very funny.
I should have known that my wife and children would quickly forgive. I am a teacher after all who was quickly forgiven by students.
I should have known how much it would hurt to see my kids hurt, or be hurt, or fail, or be left out. I was a teacher after all and talked with weeping parents.
I should have known that my best teaching would come when I least expected it. I am a teacher after all and have had too many God-sent opportunities outside of class.
I should have known how much being a husband and dad would drive me to my knees admitting my utter inability to do anything of eternal value. I am a teacher after all and observe God doing too many God-things in which I am just a bystander.
I should have known how much fun it was to live each moment with my children. I was a teacher after all who has had students who lived vibrantly and enthusiastically.
I should have known how eager I would be to see the next step of my children’s lives. I am a teacher after all who rejoices as his former students keep walking in truth.
I should have known the enormous power and sheer joy of words of encouragement and genuine praise. I am a teacher after all and have seen faces light up and confidence build.
I should have known how incredibly satisfying it is to give of myself for the growth of my children. I am a teacher after all and revel in the sanctification of my students and former students.
I should have known that I would learn so much from Jill. I was a teacher after all who was learned from numerous gifted teachers.
I should have known the exponential power of partnering with my wife. I am a teacher after all who co-labored with outstanding colleagues.
I should have known how necessary this partnership is. I am a teacher after all who has needed the wise perspective of fellow teachers.
I should have known that being a dad would be so thrilling and delightful and challenging. I am a teacher after all and God has blessed me with great students.
I am a teacher, and a dad, and a husband. And I would not change these for the world.
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